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By RSR - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 I wuld like to get into a monogomus relationship with another guy. But it,s hard ! you know!?! Im pritty messed up eh! I have a history of neglect and sexual abuse from when i was a kid! So it's no big suprise in my twenties I was drug fuct and working as a postitue! But i,ve been clean over 7yrs now & I,ve done some work onmyself! But i still find my sefl falling for str8 guys or guys who dont treat me right! (Text book behaviour for adults with a neglectfull chidhood) I,m doing my best & i dont even realy know if i'm ready 4 a rl8shp! but i'd like to find out by giving it a go! But i,m finding it hard to meet a guy who wants the same thing! And u kno i stilll feel some shame bout being a poof! By BMJ - Friday, October 05, 2007 hi mate, I think it's good that you know who you are. Try and be positive about yourself so that you attract the right people. If someone else is looking for a partner and you looked depressed etc they wont look your way. there's someone out there for everyone and it can take time whether your gay or straight or bi. Look after yourself, I hope you find someone nice. Cheers By Bushman - Friday, January 04, 2008 Too right, there is always someone for each of us. Don't be hard on yourself. As I speak from Experience about sex with guys also, no shame in that the main thing is be true and honest with ourselves. And depends on why you seek guy sex. thats what I am in process of doing as I am married. Just be you and thats the best thing stay a aay from drugs. Take care