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my partner has just told me that he has got clinical depression. he has been down for a while which i had noticed but he told me at the weekend that his work were worried about him and were going to stuck him on sick leave. he told me yesterday that he suspects that he is depressed again and that he is booked into see his doctor tomorrow about going back on antidepressants. he was on them before we got together for the same thing. i am trying so hard not to believe that it has anything to do with me, i am not the easiest person to cope with. he explained to me the reasons why he thinks this has started again, his mum is really ill, his sister is struggling with depression herself, we have alot of outgoings and not alot of incoming at the moment, so money is an issue. his ex who he has a 1 year old boy with has caused a few problems in the past but recently she has been alright but who knows how long that will last. he has no time for himself and we dont get alot of time together, he has his son 2 nights a week and he does not stay at mine. we cannot afford to live together at the moment. i am scared and worried for him and i dont really know what to do.
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just support him and tell him yr there for him.just talk to him about how he feels.make sure you listen.dont worry about other things,concentrate on him getting better.
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I can't understand why you think his depression has something to do with you. Given all of the challenges he is facing at the moment the last thing he needs is a paranoid reaction from his closest ally - you.
Lighten up and give your man constant unswerving support and love. This will be what he will remember when he gets through all of this - that you were there for him and that you were constant, unswerving and undemanding.
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Sorry to hear that your partner have been through this. Encourage him to see a specialist. I am not a doctor, just sharing my personal experience as I have had depressions and anxiety for sometime. The best way to get over anxiety and depression is to take a break from your regular schedule, go out, and take good sleep. This helps in clearing the mind and try consulting a specialist who can suggest you as how you can get over your problem. Xanax is one of those medicines which help in relieving anxiety and depression, but this medicine should only be used for small duration as this is habit forming drug and sometimes the withdrawal symptoms can be more depressing. The withdrawal from this medicine is a slow and gradual process rather than abrupt. Xanax works by slowing down the nervous system and hence relieves anxiety.
Cheap Xanax
Edited: Tuesday, April 07, 2009 by
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Try to listen and sort out the problem.
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