What can I do? Nobody will listen!

Owned — Thu, 17 May 2012 22:59:10 GMT

Hi, there are so many things to say so I'll dot point the major parts - even though with all the grains of sand on the same shovel it's quite an arm load.

Advice on DV order

DVhelpneeded — Wed, 16 May 2012 08:18:21 GMT

My wife is wanting to get a divorce and is saying she will take out a DV order so that I can not enter our property.

This is in regards to an incident that happened a very long time ago which I admitted was wrong and since then have been att

custody

nigel — Fri, 11 May 2012 01:12:19 GMT

Hi,some of you may have read my past posts,as i have said im still totaly in love and would love to reconcile.Anyway its easter and i have the kids picked them up from school thursday had a breif conversation with there mum.My partner has always been very

Anonymous posts and moderation

Admin — Thu, 10 May 2012 05:26:05 GMT

There has been an issue with some posts not showing up on the forum. You can post here anonymously. However, if you do so, your post will need to be approved by the Mensline admin team before it appears. Unfortunately, in the past this did not always occu

Internet porn and relationships: want to tell your story?

Admin — Tue, 08 May 2012 22:48:48 GMT

Want to share your story?

We at Mensline Australia have been approached by a respected Sydney Morning Herald journalist who is looking to write a feature story about the use of internet porn within relationships – and the potentially destructive

Stuck in the mess of a dead marriage

demonisphere — Tue, 08 May 2012 20:42:44 GMT

Hi, I'm new here. Finally found what I was looking for on this website. I'm not familiar with forums, so please excuse if I have broken any informal forum protocols.

The short version - married for 13 years to a younger female, put d

lonelyness

baloo — Tue, 08 May 2012 20:15:37 GMT

last year I spoke of anger , and my girl of 4 years of whom I engaged, distancing from me. well , we are now seperated . I never seen any love from her , maybe due to my anger at work ( which i have changed jobs) , but never felt any either . I felt more

communication

nigel — Tue, 08 May 2012 19:58:25 GMT

been seperated 8 months now,yes i still love her but she is a lost cause,literally.

we have three kids 6,4 and 2 and she refuses to communicate about them and its getting worse each week,she use to reply to a text or email or when she WANTED some

What a mess

Addo — Fri, 04 May 2012 02:28:05 GMT

Good morning to you all. Let me tell you my story. Back in Feb of 2012, I recieved a call from a lady who claims that her partner aged 49 was having an affair with my 30 yr old wife. At first I refused to believe it and even after confro

I don't want to be without her

World is gone — Wed, 02 May 2012 01:00:55 GMT

Hi guys I don't really know where to start but I will have a go last week my partner of five years and the mother of my child left me for a girl and I have been an absolute mess since I havent slept last night was the first night I managed to and only abo

LOVE MY FAMILY

razor — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 21:52:49 GMT

I have agreed to a break my partner has asked for. I have moved out because the last few years have been hell for her living with me i have treated her like crap emotionally and at times verbally .

I am ashamed of what i have done because i love her a

Crumbling life

hurtinghub — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 00:14:03 GMT

Hi everyone,I am a new addition to the crew of this difficult ship.1 month ago last monday I arrived home from work to be told by my wife of 13 yrs that she didnt feel anything in her heart for me anymore, she was leaving and we were over. I didnt h

Lack of Phyisical & Verbal attention of any sort

ShortBlack — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 21:41:58 GMT

Hey Guys.

this is my first post here. I have been trying to think of ways to get some advice here, i was thinking about even going to individually see someone professional about this, as its plaguing me.

Status Quo; Married for 10 years.

teen daughter

tormented — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 03:43:59 GMT

My teen daughter is driving me crazy. She disrespects me and is not happy unless she is treating me like dirt and being in charge. She came to live with myself and wife when she was about 11 as her mum was to busy and apparently was not getting enoug

Please Help with Separation Questions.

ColinHolloway — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 01:38:42 GMT

Hi All,

Yesterday marked a massive turning point in the failure of my marriage. I accept that it is over and now have questions regarding the next steps.

Background info.

We have 20 month old daughter

First separa

Married to Controlling Woman

all_at_sea — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 21:15:46 GMT

Hi There,

This is my first post on any kind of internet forum for anything. And I still can't believe this is me doing it. "I'd never thought it would be me."

A few weeks ago I woke up and realised I was married to

Interesting turn around for me....

Google — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 00:45:30 GMT

So, for those who haven't read any of my previous posts, a quick re-cap...

Troubled marriage since 2002, counselling on-off from then until 2008. In 2008 I gave up, asked for divorce, shared access to kids (aged 13 & 14 now) and offered to se

Suicidal thoughts

GD79 — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 00:40:20 GMT

Hey all, i would just like to know when are thoughts about suicide/dying are unacceptable. I dont think that its something that i would actually ever do, but i very regularly think about it - Ive actually narrowed down the methods to two and have thought

When is enough enough?

Fustrated — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 08:50:42 GMT

Hi, I'm a little nervous writing this but hopefully it's cathartic by the time I'm finished.

I've been with my girlfriend for just over 3 and a half years and I love her to death. She's a great girl, sweet, fairly inno

Does my ex have to know?

Jack2 — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 08:34:31 GMT

I have just begun a new relationship and have recently moved in with my new partner in her home. My two children have stayed with us on two weekends so far, but now my ex is demanding to know my new address. My new partner doesn't want my ex to know

still inlove

nigel — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 19:21:27 GMT

Hi,we seperated september last year and things havent been the best since,well i thought they were ok i was seeing the kids most days as she lives close by,but everytime i had the kids she was out even if it was only for a couple of hours and as she lives

Need to share

broken_man — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 14:52:27 GMT

Below is a letter I wrote to my now ex-wife the week after she asked me for a seperation. 6 months I was working away in the mines to dig us out for debt and I came home to this before our family holiday in January 2012.

I’m Coming Home
I’m c

How do you deal with lack of sex

wulfstan — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 02:23:47 GMT

Yes, how do you deal with lack of sex in a relationship? I find it very hard. Me and my wife practically don't have sex at all. If we do it's once every couple of months. She says she loves me, she's nice but she just doesn't want sex. To make matter wors

Where do I go from here?

butch — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 07:05:55 GMT

I am a married man with two beautiful girls who works far too hard. My wife is wonderful and I repaid her 3 years ago by cheating on her.

As usual life gets in the way, too many hou

Committing to a better relationship

David — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 20:20:12 GMT

Hi everyone,

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