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have just started a trial separation from my wife of 12 years and am wondering if anyone has any ideas as where to start. i am not the greatest communicator and this has caused a lot of problems. i have been trying to improve myself in this area but feel that it may be too little too late. i still love her and i am pretty sure she feels the same but i think that for too long that we have taken eachother for granted. does anyone have any suggestions as to what steps i should take to win her back.
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Buy a book called the Five Languages of Love, just type the site below into the internet and you will find it. It is a simple and effective book which when read by both parties gives you each an understanding of each of you give and receive love.The five are, touch, gifts, quality of time, affirmation and service. It is amazing what we dont know about how our partners want to receive love, an how we only know our way of giving it. This book has saved many marriages I am sure.
www.fivelovelanguages.com/
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DO WHAT IM GOING TO DO IN THE NEXT FEW DAYS , IV MADE AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY GB TO HELP ME SEEK HELP WITH THE THINGS THAT'S HAPPENING TO ME , IV HAD DEATH IN MY FAMILY DATING FROM 20 YEARS AGO , MY YOUNG BROTHER , THE UPSET THAT I HAD BARE WITH WAS SO GREAT IT WENT ON TILL NOW 2011, WHEN I FIRST GOT TO KNOW THE GIRL THAT I ASKED TO MARRY ME BACK IN EARLY DEC' 2007 IN MANILA I SO HAPPY THAT SHE SAID YES , SO I WAS TO STAY IN MANILA FOR A FEW DAYS AND I NEED TO FLY BACK HOME TO MELBOURNE , AND I TOLD HER THAT ILL START PLANING YOUR AIRLINE TICKET TO MELBOURNE AND STAY FOR TEN DAYS IN A HOTEL WHICH IV BOOKED FOR HER , SO ROUND ABOUT LATE JAN 2008 I WENT BACK TO MANILA AND BRING BACK THE GIRL THAT I FELL IN LIVE WITH , WHILE IN MANILA I KNEW THAT MY FATHER WAS NOT ALL THAT WELL SO I CALL MY MUM FROM MANILA TO SEE HOW HE WAS THAT WAS THE NIGHT BEFORE FLYING BACK TO MELBOURNE , MY MUM TOLD THE BAD NEWS THAT MY FATHER HAS PASSED AWAY LAST NIGHT I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO THE UPSET IN SIDE ME WAS SO GREAT THAT I JUST FELT ENDING MY LIFE , BUT MY WIFE TO BE HELD ME AND HUG ME TO COMFORT ME ,
THE STORY GOES LIKE THIS AFTER 2 AND HALF YEARS BEING MARRIED WITH ALL THE UPSET THAT'S HAPPEN TO ALL THE YEARS AND NEVER LET IT OUT BUT KEPT IT INSIDE ME IT ALL STARTED TO COME OUT AND ITS UPSETTING MY WIFE IN A BIG WAY , INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PUSH ASIDE THE PASSED IT ALL COME OUT AND I MUST SAY IT WAS UNFAIR ON MY WIFE , I HAD TO MUCH ON MY MIND THE DEATH OF MY BROTHER THE MY FATHER AND THE STRESS OF LOSING THE FAMILY HOME TO THE BANK DUE TO IM NOT WORK AND ALSO MY WIFE HAS JUST ENDED HER FULL TIME STUDY AND HOPE TO FIND A JOB , WE DO HAVE A 1 AND HALF YEAR OLD GIRL ,
JUST A FEW DAYS AGO MY WIFE SAID SHE COULD NOT TAKE THIS ANYMORE WITH ME BEING STRESSED OUT AND THE UPSET IS ONGOING AND THE FACT THAT I GET ANGRY WITH HER BUT NEVER LAID A HAND ON HER , SO SHE PACKED A OVER NIGHT BAG FOR HER AND OUR BABY GIRL AND SAID THAT SHE WAS GOING I SAID WHERE TO SHE NEVER TOLD ME I GOT ANGRY AND SAID IF WANT TO GO FELL FREE BUT THE LITTLE ONE STAY'S HOME WITH ME , SO SHE WENT AND CALLED THE POLICE ON TO ME AND TOLD THEM ABOUT WHATS HAPPEN BETWEEN US , THE POLICE CAME OVER TO OUR HOME AND SAID THAT YOUR WIFE IS AT THE STATION AT THE MOMENT AND CLAIM YOU WONT GIVE HER OUR BABY GIRL , I SAID I WONT MY BABY STAYING AWAY FROM HOME , SO I DID NOT GIVE HER UP MY BABY GIRL STAYED WITH ME AND 2 DAYS LATER I GET A CALL FROM THE DHS SAYING THEY NEED TO TALK TO ME AND THE FACT THAT I NEEDED HELP , THEY CLAIM THAT WHATS HAPPENING TO ME , I'M NOT GOING TO CARE FOR MY CHILD AND MY SELF , SO THEY TOOK MY BABY GIRL TO MY WIFE AND THE DHS SAID TO ME TO SEEK HELP AND THE FACT THAT THEY WILL HELP US BOTH MY SELF AND MY WIFE FIX THIS THING BETWEEN US ,
ALL THE STRESS , THE UPSET , AND AT TIMES THE ANGER ,
SO THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS SEE YOUR GB AND TELL HIM OR HER YOUR STORY AND ASK FOR SOME HELP , THEY WILL GET SOMEONE THAT DOSE BULK BILLING IF YOUR WORKING , THAT'S THE FIRST STEP THAT YOU NEED TO TAKE SEE YOUR GB AND BE OPEN TALK , TELL EVERY THING AND IF YOU FELL UPSET SO BE IT , CRY IF NEED BE , COS I TELL YOU I DID AND I MUST SAY I FELL A LITTLE BETTER NOW NOT MUCH BUT IT HELPS , I MISS MY BABY AND MY WIFE , I STILL LOVE MY WIFE AND CARE FOR HER , IF ONLY SHE WILL BELIEVE THAT I AM AND WILL TAKE THE FIRST STEP TO SEEK HELP ,
AND MAYBE THAT'S WHAT YOU NEED TO SEE YOUR GB AND GET HELP AND SHOW YOUR WIFE WHAT YOUR DOING , TELL HER THAT YOU STILL LOVE HER AND YOU WILL GET HELP SO YOUR LIFE WITH HER WILL BE FOR THE BETTER , COS THAT'S WHAT IM DOING ,
GOOD LUCK
REGARDS GEORGE
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